Hola, todos! Hi, everyone!
Since the wardrobe speaks volumes and Shakespeares and Cervantes about who we are...
OBJECTIVE TODAY: to make your wardrobe work superbly for you, start up with these (meant to be fun) questions now and you´ll find yourself coming accross dear treasures in shops and wardrobes alike.
How´s your wardrobe doing today, these days, this past week?
GOOD, SO-SO, AWFUL, BORING, SPLENDID.
Do you feel/ see /hear the link between your creativity/ stress/ objectives accomplished- or not
and your wardrobe?
YES-NO (I do, all the time!)
When is it best? Worst?
Which is your ideal closet, physically and aesthetically speaking? How far/close are you from it? What do you need today?
(you may write to me for coaching for free but keep it under 20 lines, please...)
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Is it more a work-all-work closet? YES-NO
Do you like your main activity/ies in life? YES-NO (sorry, some might suffer here but I ask all whose closet I audit and it helps things-and tears-flow)
Is your wardrobe mostly about it? YES-NO
Or is it about what you wish you could do? (Been there...)
Do you think you are more analytical than creative? (there is no why, here, we are born that way)
Ia there enough room and items for elegance and FUN in your wardrobe? Can you meet both?
YES-NO (better be yeeeessss... ;)
If you love your job, great, but what if you don´t?
IF YOU DONT: Are there still useful, dynamic, sassy clothes that say what you do EFFICIENTLY at work, with enough style? IF you must work for a living, that is, because you have to go out to work.
YES-NO.
Liking one´s life and ADORING one´s style and wardrobe have a lot to do, it´s been proven.
Still with me? Anything that was not clear for you upto now? YES-NO.
Please read again or write to me.
Please read again or write to me.
How much time a month do you put into it? (Three magic boxes will help you to LOVE DOING it) ONE HOUR A MONTH/
UHMMM...NONE/
ONCE A YEAR/
ONCE A SEMESTER/
WHEN I GET MARRIED AGAIN.
WHEN IT RAINS CANDY (valid too).
What are your feelings when you check your wardrobe out? ( when you´re HAPPY, SAD, OPTIMISTIC, SOMEONE HELPS) WHEN??
Does it resemble:
the you of decades ago orthe trip you never take/never use some things
or the you today, absolutely, with goals and obligations and fun and all. WHICH?
Does it resemble: what you´d like to be but are not yet (ASTRONAUT AT 40, PRESIDENT OF THE US, THINKING OF IMPROBABLE FUTURES)
DOES IT RESEMBLE...your mother´s father´s colours and style TOO MUCH AND YOU ARE SO DIFFERENT?
DO YOU SHOP AT THE SAME PLACES SINCE 2002?
-Does your wardrobe represent you, with realistic money plans ($) and DREAMS today?
THE SINCEREST YES-NO ANSWER HERE, DARLING.
WE ARE IN THE MIDST OF A CRISIS!
(possible answers, if your sight is blurring: it does and I do keep my budget controlled and still have a certain style and flair to dress/
it does not represent my life/likings and wantings-can´t manage it and I need some help, by the way... or whatever you think, reader.
Do you keep wanting an ever bigger budget since you were ten? Meaning, never satisfied?
YES-NO (has to do with the previous answer, of course)
Do you feel (mostly about feelings, this wardrobe, great for heart tissue excercise :-) that with your kind of life today, whatever the set, you can learn to optimize it, put more joy in it, dress more JOYFULLY, show off your best self to the world and to yourself? YES-NO
YOU MAY DOUBT, CRY AND SCREAM, BUT
BE HONEST TO YOURSELF!
all answers welcome. might be published. change your name if necessary. promise to write back within a week.
men and women welcome to your own best image! Agueda and The Three Magic Boxes (tm)
next topic: your colors.